14 Non-Sexual Ways You Can Make Yourself Sexually Attractive.

It doesn't matter if you're interested in casually dating a person or looking for a committed relationship. The first step is catching their attention. The secret is that there are no tricks to this, and even if there were, you wouldn't want to trick someone into liking you, would you?

There are some people that are born with outstanding features, prominent lips or cheek bones for example, that are considered beautiful around the world. We shouldn't feel lacking if we don't have such things. Focusing on what we don't have often prevents us from sharing our own outstanding features.

More than anything, this post is about recognizing what makes you attractive, not making yourself attractive. From there, you can focus on highlighting these things and feel confident. That's right. You don't need to wish upon a star or undergo a drastic transformation. By taking care of yourself, you draw others closer to you in a way that won't come off when you wash your face at night.

Take a look at this list of attractive traits and let us know about any others that drive you wild (in the best way, of course).

You lead a life of fulfillment.

To understand what this means, you must first understand the difference between happiness and fulfillment. Susan Krauss Whitbourne Ph.D. wrote on Psychology Today that “happiness is a fleeting state that reflects your enjoyment of the moment in the present. You can feel happy, if only for a moment, for many reasons.” Fulfillment, on the other hand, is something that “persists over time.”

You lead a life of fulfillment.

You know how to have a good time.

You don’t have to pretend you’re having fun with your group of friends or fake laugh, because you are actually having fun. Maybe you’re funny, maybe you’re silly, and it’s adorable. Carry on.

You know how to have a good time.

You're confident.

By confident, we don’t mean that you strut your stuff everywhere you go. We mean that you take pride in your mind, body, and soul. You view your flaws as challenges you can work through. You know how to motivate yourself. That’s the kind of person anyone would be proud to stand next to.

You're confident.

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You're independent.

Partners like to feel useful to one another, but no one likes a needy or overly dependent person. It feels like baggage, it really does. If you know yourself well and work hard at your job (this includes single mothers), then you’re golden. You have proven to yourself that you are strong and can handle what life throws at you, and that’s very attractive.

You're independent.

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You've got the magic touch.

Don’t be afraid to use a little affection when talking to others. A gentle touch on the hand, knee, or cheek can go a long way. Don’t be creepy though. Read the room.

You've got the magic touch.

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You're nurturing.

People are attracted to others that are genuinely caring. You don’t have to play nurse, but if you have a pet or treat your friends and family well, these are things that others will notice.

You're nurturing.

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You're quirky.

We don’t blame you if you freeze up when you’re around someone you find attractive, but don’t feel like you’ll scare them away with your quirkiness. In some cases, quirkiness is just the thing.

You're quirky.

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You have good posture.

Bad posture is more than just about looking like a gump. Good posture improves your health and helps prevent against neck and back aches.

You have good posture.

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You've got an electric smile.

Some of us have a bad habit of withholding our feelings around the people we like. We get it. You don’t want to give away too much. But if someone makes you smile, don’t hold back. It establishes a warmer connection.

You've got an electric smile.

You can make fun of yourself.

We all mess up, but if you can laugh about it and move on, then it shows that you’re not one to dwell.

You can make fun of yourself.

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You've got the moves.

Let’s be honest. We can all work on our rhythm. Good rhythm shows in the way you walk and in the way you dance. Studies show that women feel sexy when they’re dancing, even if they’re just dancing alone. Get comfortable in your own body. Move your pelvis round and round until it stops feeling awkward. Take a class. Have fun.

You've got the moves.

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You smell nice.

This one is simple. You don’t have to douse yourself in perfume, but do take care of yourself by showering, wearing deodorant, and doing laundry regularly.

You smell nice.

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You have soft features and you're not afraid to use them.

You don’t need an hourglass figure. Think about any soft features you have. Go look in a mirror and figure out what these are (don’t be negative about it). Maybe you have soft eyes, hair, skin, or all of the above, and they’ll make someone out there melt.

You have soft features and you're not afraid to use them.

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You're intelligent.

If you’ve got a brilliant mind, don’t dumb yourself down for anyone. If this pushes others away, then you just haven’t met your match yet.

You're intelligent.

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